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5 things you should always keep private

Hi guys. Today we’ll be taking a look at 5 things you should learn to keep quiet about except the need arises.

It’s no news that we are often faced with challenges every now and then. Some we can handle by ourselves, others we just see the need to confide in someone. There’s this feeling of relief when sharing some of our challenges with certain people. However, there are certain things we need to learn to keep private.

No matter the urge we have to talk to someone about it, it’s better to just keep quiet about it. If peradventure you can’t handle it anymore, talk to some you trust at least. Without much ado, let’s take a look at those things you should learn to keep quiet about.

 

5 things you should always keep private

 

1. Your medical information

There’s basically no need to share your medical information with someone. Especially when the person is not a family or your doctor. Even doctor’s don’t disclose your medical information to anyone so why should you do otherwise.

Funny enough, you can lose friends for disclosing your medical information. Some people don’t want to be friends with an HIV +ve patient. But there’s no need for your friend to know that about you. There’s nothing he needs the information for. Also, you have it doesn’t mean he will get it. So quit sharing such information except there’s need to for example your spouse.

 

2. Your big plan

Your big plan involves steps you are willing to take to achieve your goals. There is no need telling anyone about it if they are not part of the plan. More often than not, friends and family will discourage you. This might eventually get to you.

So, the best way is to work in the secret. As long as you are doing something legit, with determination and consistency, it will definitely pay up someday.

 

3. Your love life

This is one important aspect of your life you should be quiet about. In your love life, there should never be a third party. It doesn’t always end well when a third party gets involved. Remember, you are in a relationship with one person. So, let any discussion about the relationship be with only that one person.

If you feel like you want to end things, let it be your decision and not someone else’s. Since friends and family are most time influential when we take certain decisions, then it’s best you don’t involve them. This will make you follow your heart when making decisions about your love life.

 

4. Your income

There’s basically no need for someone to know your income except need be. This is one aspect where most people keep secret intentionally. Anyways, it is the right thing to do. When people get to know your income, it might cause unnecessary spending. They might lure you to spend what you didn’t plan to spend. Most times friends won’t consider the fact that you need to save out of it. So, don’t disclose your income unless need be.

 

5. Family issues

This is similar to your love life. Whatever is going on the family should stay with the family. There should be no need for outsiders to know what’s going on in your family. Their advice might be detrimental to your family. So, be wise.

 

Repin for later

 

These are the 5 most important things you should learn to be quiet about. Do leave your comments below, and don’t forget to hit on the share button.

 

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