This moment can be devastating if he has been lying to you for months or even years.
You will be hurt and angry, but you will also want to know why he did it, who he is cheating on him with, and what you can do to stop it.
Tell him how much pain he has caused you to find the answers and closure you so desperately need.
These distressing messages will enable you to express yourself honestly and even move on, which will assist you in accomplishing your goal.
Here are some heartbreaking messages you can send to a cheating boyfriend to help you end the relationship and let him know how much he has hurt you.
POWERFUL MESSAGES TO A CHEATING BOYFRIEND
1. You are a liar and a cheat. You are not worthy of me or my love. You hurt me and betrayed my trust. You took everything I gave you and threw it away. You are merely a coward.
You’re not a man to admit your errors and accept accountability for your deeds. You’re pitiful, and I’m entitled to better. For what you’ve done to me, I pray that you burn in hell.
You can never mend what you have ruined. I sincerely hope you know that it stays with you for the rest of your life.
2. “You’re not worthy of me. Really, you don’t. I’m done with you, then. Someone who would deceive and lie to me is beneath me, and I deserve better.
I deserve a partner who will accept me as I am and be honest with me. then goodbye. It’s time for me to find someone new who deserves my love and move on.
3. Dear cheating boyfriend, I’m not sure how long you’ve been committing infidelity against me, but I want you to know that I’m breaking up with you.
My life doesn’t need this drama, and I don’t need to be with someone who can’t be honest with me. I hope you can find the assistance you need.
4. “I believed in you and felt like we had a special connection. I was mistaken. I won’t try to act like I’m not hurt because I am. I won’t try to hide the fact that I feel betrayed because I do.
But because I deserve better, I’m going to move on. I deserve a partner who will always respect my feelings for them and be honest and loyal. I should be loved for who I am, not for what I can do for others.
And I am aware that person is waiting for me somewhere. Therefore, goodbye and best of luck in your search.
5. “I believed in you and felt that our relationship was unique. I was incorrect. Since I am hurt, I won’t try to act otherwise. I won’t try to act as if I don’t feel betrayed because I do.
However, I’m going to move on since I deserve better. I deserve someone who will always respect my feelings for them, be trustworthy, and be loyal.
I deserve to be loved for who I am and not for what I can do for someone else. And I’m confident that person is standing by, ready to meet me. I’ll now bid you farewell and wish you luck in your search.
QUOTES MESSAGES TO A CHEATING BOYFRIEND
6. “You betrayed my trust; I am not a fool for having trusted you. So you succeeded in fooling yourself rather than me.
7. You believe you are a deft negotiator, don’t you? You believe that a good woman can be cheated on without her ever knowing. Even though you believe you are getting away with something, you are not.
You don’t deserve to be loved and cared for by a good woman. You don’t deserve a devoted and loyal partner. Nobody who would sacrifice anything for you is someone you deserve. You are not worthy of me.
So feel free to continue lying. You are disrespecting yourself more than I am, not me. Every single bit of suffering and heartache you experience is your fault.
8. “I was oblivious to your flaws and disregarded all the red flags, but I’ll never do that again. I sincerely hope you change your ways before it’s too late because you are not worth my time or effort.
9. I’m glad you’re out of my life because you’re not the kind of guy I thought you were. You were only a fleeting joy that I couldn’t see because of my blindness. Through the course of this entire experience, I’ve learned a lot about myself.
I now understand that being by myself is preferable to being with someone who doesn’t care about me. I wish you would one day look back on everything you did to me and realize what a fool you were
10. Real men are not dishonest. They possess integrity, loyalty, and honesty. Cowards who are too afraid, to be honest with themselves and their partners are nothing more than cheaters. They are pitiful, and no one should give them their time or love. A real man, are you? Oh my bad, I forgot you were a liar and a coward!
GOODBYE MESSAGES TO A CHEATING BOYFRIEND
11. “Dear Ex-bOYFRIEND, I just wanted to let you know that I’ve completely let our relationship and you go. You screwed up, so if it doesn’t hurt, I hope it at least makes you think.
While I genuinely don’t regret our time together, I am moving on. I’m relieved that this occurred at the appropriate time because it has shown me what a jerk you are, and I will no longer have to worry about being taken advantage of by you.
Even though I thought you meant a lot to me at the time, I didn’t, and now that I’m living my life without you, it’s much better than it was before.
I wasted my time and effort on you. You were probably the worst boyfriend anyone could ever have, so I wish we hadn’t dated for as long as we did. I find it hard to believe that someone as great as you could treat me in such a disrespectful manner.
Though you never deserved it, perhaps one day, when your heart has been shattered into a million pieces, you’ll look back on how cruelly you treated me and how great of a girlfriend I was to you.
Then perhaps we’ll be on equal footing and the suffering will end for both of us.
12. I want you to know that I’m putting this behind me and won’t look back. I hope you understand how meaningless you were to me and how wrong it was of you to cheat on me.
13. “I don’t look back on my life with regret because it brought me to you. And having met you taught me just how evil a person could be, so I won’t ever regret it.
14. “I hope you find people like you. The kind, you know. the person who cheats on you and then demands your forgiveness. The person who believes adultery to be common and acceptable, but who is shocked and horrified when it occurs to them. the person who fails to recognize the impact of their actions or take into account the suffering they cause others.”
15. “You were a total waste of time and energy. I’m glad I caught wind of your dishonest behaviour before it was too late. Knowing this now is preferable to later when we might have been married or had children together. I’m lucky!”.
HURTFUL MESSAGES TO A CHEATING BOYFRIEND
16. You’re not the man I believed you to be. Your behaviour demonstrates that you are a coward who only thinks about himself. Actual men pursue their dreams, not women!
I want a man who respects me despite my flaws and treats me like a queen. It’s pitiful that you are so self-conscious that you would choose to talk about our relationship behind my back rather than in front of me.
I have no respect for someone who would treat another person like garbage just because they might not be perfect in every way or live up to their standards.
That is not how a real man behaves.
A real man doesn’t cheat on his girlfriend just because he wants something new after dating her for a few months.”
17. “You show no regard for our bond or for me personally. You also have no regard for yourself! I’m hoping you’ll come to terms with the kind of person you are. I’m hoping your karma finds you before then!
18. “I don’t feel hurt; I just feel bad for you. I’m not angry; rather, I’ve lost faith in you. You betrayed my trust, and I have no interest in someone who can’t be loyal to the person they claim to love.
When you made the decision to sleep with another woman behind my back, my trust in you was destroyed. You are no longer the man I fell in love with; instead, you are a liar who fabricates stories about having an extramarital affair.
19. “I’m not sure how often I’ve extended my forgiveness for your transgressions, but this time it’s just too much for me to bear. You’ve already hurt me too much, and this time I don’t have it in me to give you another chance to make amends because I know deep down that you’ll keep acting the same way until we end our relationship for good.
20. “I believed we were content, I believed our bond to be solid and positive. However, I can now see that everything was a lie. I didn’t know you were having an affair with another girl. You gave me the impression that everything was fine even though it wasn’t. I now find it hard to believe that you lied to me the entire time.
I have no business falling in love with someone who doesn’t reciprocate my feelings. I’m going to leave you behind forever and find someone who will be concerned about my well-being rather than just their own interests and desires.
TEXT MESSAGES TO A CHEATING BOYFRIEND
21. “Dear cheater, I pondered our relationship and how everything went wrong. I keep thinking about all the promises you made to me and how you let them slip through your fingers. What did I get in place of what you promised me you wouldn’t do?
We are together despite your claims that you adore me and would never want anyone else in your life. You should know that this relationship is over.
22. Hey, I’m not sure what your strategy is. Do what’s best for you if you have another woman in mind. But I do want to say something to you. Someone like me is not what you deserve.
Since you can’t even decide who you want to be with, you don’t deserve to be with me. You are not the type of guy to remain with a girl for life. You are, and you always will be, a player. So why would I want to waste my time with someone like you?
I have had enough of this relationship.
23. It’s been some time since I gathered all the information that corroborated my suspicions. After all this time, I can’t believe you still had the guts to do something like this. I’d rather not even see you in my front again.
24. I’m shocked that you believed I was gullible enough to fall for all of your lies. It only took one instant to destroy everything after all the trust I put in you. You really are a disgusting person.
25. Which is worse, your lying to me or your belief that I am gullible enough to believe your lies?
BREAKUP MESSAGES TO A CHEATING BOYFRIEND
26. Although I may forgive you, I am not naive enough to put my trust in you once more. You chose to cheat me; it wasn’t a mistake.
27. The ironic thing about apologizing is that you are expected to avoid repeating your mistake. You weren’t taught the word correctly by someone. But who cares; now that you’re single, you’ll have plenty of time to go learn every word by heart.
28. I’ve been doubting your loyalty for a while, but I always assumed it was just in my head. I believed I had truly found the love of my life after knowing you for the majority of my life. I was completely in error. All I could see was a lying, cheating ex-husband.
29. It’s funny how life has a way of showing us that it’s not a fairy tale. Sometimes it comes in the form of an explanation, and other times it comes in the form of a husband who has cheated on you, proving that you weren’t the true princess after all.
30. If my life has taught me anything, it’s that I should always be able to forgive while never forgetting. Therefore, even though I may not be all that mad at you and I sincerely assure you that everything is fine, don’t anticipate things to ever be the same again. Glass that has already broken cannot be fixed.
31. I suppose it’s time to let you find a better woman since you apparently didn’t think I was good enough to be your only woman.
32. Don’t think that because I never caught you cheating on me that you’re some hot stud. I simply had more faith in you than you could ever earn.
33. You could have simply broken up and gone home with dignity, declaring that you didn’t want this to go on, continuing your life with your new lady friend. But you changed your mind out of greed and decided to keep us both. So now that you are left with nothing, enjoy your day.
34. I’ve done everything in my power to be the best wife anyone could ask for. You seemed to believe that I didn’t even merit an explanation for everything that occurred for some reason. You ought to have left if I wasn’t good enough for you!
35. Since we first started dating, you’ve done a lot of things that aren’t right in this relationship, but I let everything slide because I believed you to be in love with me. I don’t have to put up with you anymore because I now understand that your love is intended for someone else.
SAD MESSAGES TO A CHEATING BOYFRIEND
36. Realizing that your cheating husband was only waiting for your approval is the hardest part of letting him go. Since you were too much of a coward to tell me what you wanted, goodbye and find someone who makes you happy.
37. You had to throw the last drop after all these years of marital issues. It’s unfortunate to realize that you will probably be cheating on her every time you tell her you are going to a work meeting or getting a beer with your friends. You are the kind of person who is never satisfied or content.
38. When I first met you, I was overjoyed and convinced that you were the one and I would be with you forever. At least you had assured me of that. I had no idea that there was a cap on how long something could last. When you first saw the woman who caused the conflict between us, everything went wrong.
39. Now that you’ve done the unimaginably worst possible thing to a woman’s heart, you must feel like a real man. I had the impression that every time I touched you, those hands had recently been in environments that are so foreign to me. You repulse me.
40. “You betrayed my trust; I am not a fool for having trusted you. So you succeeded in fooling yourself rather than me.
41. “You cheated on us as well as me, not just me. You damaged our future in addition to breaking my heart.
42. “Being single has taught me that it’s much preferable to being with a cheater, and vice versa. Liberating, that feeling.
43. Isn’t it amazing how you ended up becoming the person you declared you would never be in your life? I appreciate you deeply disappointing me.
44. I should give up now. I am putting this behind me and won’t look back. I hope you understand how meaningless you were to me and how wrong it was of you to cheat on me.
45. “I don’t look back on my life with regret because it brought me to you. And having met you taught me just how evil a person could be, so I won’t ever regret it.
46. “Let go of your lover if they bring you more misery than joy. No matter how much you love them, it doesn’t matter. There is someone out there who will bring you joy.
47. “I won’t put up with your deceit and mind games. I’m not going to participate in your ongoing drama. You won’t be able to manipulate or rule me.
48. If you have any sense, don’t just claim it was an accident because you chose to cheat when you had the option to, and you accepted the consequences that resulted from your actions.
49. Ever since we first started dating, you’ve done a lot of things wrong in this relationship, but I let everything slide because I believed you to love me. I don’t have to put up with you anymore because I now understand that your love is intended for someone else.
50. “No, don’t ask me for forgiveness; I just realized that love cannot be this way, and I shouldn’t put up with a false love, a foolish love, a love that only loves half of the time, a love that sometimes wants what it wants and sometimes doesn’t, a love that sometimes loves and sometimes doesn’t.”
PAINFUL MESSAGES TO CHEATING BOYFRIEND
51. “Please assist me in finding the solution to this query. Who is more stupid: the one who cheats or the one who believes? Your ex-girlfriend, sincerely
52. “You made me feel so defeated that I lost interest. I appreciate that you made it simple for me.
53. “Why weren’t you honest with me and let me know that you had betrayed me if you really loved me like you always said?”
54. “I feel broken, hurt, sad, angry, and let down. I’m going to smile the widest anyway. I am entitled to happiness, with or without you.
55. “A heart that truly cares for someone would never consider betraying them. Instead, it will put its trust in them and stick by them.
56. “Your love made me think of us as a happy couple of fish living together happily in a pond. Later, I came to understand that you were egotistical.
57. Instead of crying alongside a man I no longer believe, I’d rather cry now. The worst thing you could have done to me was to betray me. Many things I have forgiven you for, but I will never forgive you for this.
58. Real men are not dishonest. They possess integrity, loyalty, and honesty. Cowards who are too afraid to be honest with themselves and their partners are nothing more than cheaters. They are pitiful, and no one should give them their time or love. A real man, are you? Oh my bad, I forgot you were a liar and a coward!
59. “I loved you so much that I never dreamed of being paid back for my great love by disappointment. Undoubtedly, his employer is unknown, but life will make sure to give him what he deserves. Goodbye.”
60. “I’ve been doubting your loyalty for a while, but I always assumed it was just in my head. I felt I had truly found the love of my life after knowing you for the majority of my life. I was completely in error. All I could see was a lying, cheating ex-boyfriend.
HURTING MESSAGES TO A CHEATING BOYFRIEND
61. “You were a total waste of time and energy. I’m glad I caught wind of your dishonest behaviour before it was too late. Knowing this now is preferable to later when we might have been married or had children together. I’m lucky!”
62. “You are behind, you are that past, a path I no longer wish to travel because therein I find the greatest disappointment that left the surprise of not knowing who the being was with whom I had spent so much time.”
63. “I hope you find people like you. The kind, you know. the person who cheats on you and then demands your forgiveness. The person who believes adultery to be common and acceptable, but who is shocked and horrified when it occurs to them. the person who fails to recognize the impact of their actions or take into account the suffering they cause others.”
64. “I believed in you and felt like we had a special connection. I was mistaken. I won’t try to act like I’m not hurt because I am. I won’t try to hide the fact that I feel betrayed because I do. But because I deserve better, I’m going to move on.
I deserve a partner who will always respect my feelings for them and be honest and loyal. I should be loved for who I am, not for what I can do for others. And I am aware that person is waiting for me somewhere. Therefore, goodbye and best of luck in your search.
65. Never in my life did I want a loser like you. I appreciate you making me regret my choice and forcing me to exercise greater caution moving forward. I hope I never run into you again.
66. You weren’t at fault. It was my fault for accepting your word for truth.
67. Realizing that your cheating boyfriend was only waiting for your approval is the hardest part of breaking up with him. Since you were too much of a coward to tell me what you wanted, goodbye and find someone who makes you happy.
68. “The only person who is capable of betraying the love of their life is one who has no principles or values. I believe that the great love you claimed to have for me was only a verbal expression and never truly existed.
69. Thank you to God and to live for the cues that helped me discover your lie. You might believe that what you did was excusable, but keep in mind that my values are very strict and clearly stated; nothing, and nobody, can violate them.
70. “I’m leaving because I’m not your top priority. In this relationship, I have given so much, but the love is only one-sided. The time to let go is now.
HEARTBREAKING MESSAGES TO A CHEATING BOYFRIEND
71. The worst mistake a man can make is to turn on a woman who has actually stood up for him, supported him, and stood by him through the worst times of his life.
72. I find it incomprehensible that you believed I was stupid enough to fall for all of your lies. Despite all the faith I had in you, it only took a single instant for everything to be lost. You really are a disgusting person.
73. “I wish we could speak again, but whenever I consider all the lies you have told me, the thought quickly fades away. I don’t want to hear from you anymore. Go away and leave me alone.
74. “A lack of love is not the cause of lying… It results from arrogance, selfishness, and being a scumbag!
75. “You could have simply broken up with her and continued your life with this new woman you’ve met by leaving, declaring that you don’t want this to go on, taking your dignity with you, and going home.
But you turned avaricious and decided you wanted to keep both of us. So now that you are left with nothing, enjoy your day.
76. “I never imagined that breaking up with you would be bitter-sweet. You humiliated my love, but it’s also bittersweet because I won’t ever have to see your face again!
77. “I believe you lack the ability to recognize a good opportunity when it is in front of you; if you did, you would not have misled me and would have spoken at the appropriate time.”
78. Despite the fact that you are the person I have adored the most in this life, I won’t take the chance of being betrayed again. I’ve already endured enough pain, and I don’t want to go through it with you.
79. “I can’t find an explanation, as much as I think that’s what drove you to cheat on me in this way. I always thought you were content to be by my side and that you had everything you needed. I was mistaken when I believed that my love for you was sufficient.
80. “You could have simply broken up with her and continued your life with this new woman you’ve met by leaving, declaring that you don’t want this to go on, taking your dignity with you, and going home.
But you changed your mind out of greed and decided to keep us both. So now that you are left with nothing, enjoy your day.
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